Why National ABO Doesn’t Emphasize or Promote Who Wins or Loses Every Game

Yes, competition is important. However, following the numbers on a scoreboard during every game is only a minor part of the greater picture; not the whole picture itself. It is fantastic to win and it’s definitely worthy of celebrating. However, if you lose, I try to take note of it not to be interpreted as ‘failure’ but as a ‘learning experience.’ In a way that better fits the mission to instill personal growth through America’s Pastime, the perception, promotion, and showcase of who wins or loses should be rooted in the individual developments and strengths our athletes display during the game on the diamond. For example, what were some great (and for some, shocking/surprising) moments that involved positive encouragement, teamwork, communication, sportsmanship and leadership? How can this be communicated in ways that inspire others?

I’ve found many do not often remember the exact score of a game. I was at Jose Fernandez’s last away start in Atlanta before his boat crash in 2016 and can’t remember the exact score. However, many watching remember specific moments of the game itself including the ways the athletes and coaches carry themselves; before, during and after! These elements and small parts can serve as remarkable testimonials of the personal growth exhibited. Other sectors (business, workplace, etc.) will see those newly developed and fine-tuned skills and demonstrations of character and integrity to be valuable. There are individual ‘wins’ to be found even in games where your local team loses. Likewise if your team wins, you can ‘lose’ by demonstrating arrogance and poor sportsmanship. The instilling of that perspective and direction are worthy of celebration in itself. In the end, we are all working together to break barriers that inhibit societal inclusion. Every game is a true opportunity for growth.